Winning Strategies for Raising a Good Sport
Kids’ participation in sports scores points with parents
because it helps teach leadership, self-discipline
and teamwork. But sometimes, these activities
prompt children to be bad sports, instead. If you’re raising
an athlete, here’s how you can train your child to be a
good sport.
beyond the rules of the game
When your youngster plays or practices, offer praise and encouragement. This adds to a child’s enjoyment and sense of accomplishment. But let her know if she does something inappropriate. For example, when she pushes another child down, make sure she understands that it hurts the other child.Regardless of your child’s age, it’s wise to explain that winning is not the best way to find success in sports. What matters is how hard you try. Knowing this helps children feel good about themselves—in defeat as well as in victory.
be a good role model
How you act at games also teaches your child what’s acceptable. It’s very likely that your youngster will mimic your actions—whether those actions are respectful of others or not.When you and your child see uncivil behavior, talk to your child about it. Explain your feelings about the behavior, and suggest better ways to handle the situation. An alternative to screaming from the sidelines, for example, might be to cheer the team on.
